I wanted a little past the shoulder veil length but i may get extensions so my hair will most likely be longer than the veil. Will that look weird? Is the veil sappost to cover all your hair or what? Also should i have my girls all have the same hair style or let them do what they want? I wanna tell them do it how you want just if mine is up have your down and visa versa that way they do look a little different then me ya know. Im also kind of afraid that if i have my hair down which is more natural and they go with their hair up it may be more dramatic than mine which you may call me stubborn but i kinds want my hair to be a little nicer ya know? Help !
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It's okay to have your hair longer than the veil - there are all different lengths of veils.
The hairstyles thing is tricky. Of course you will be different and the most beautiful because you will have your hair down and will have the veil. Do the girls have headpieces/flowers they are wearing in their hair? That could determine what they do with their hair. At my wedding, only one girl had shoulder length hair, the others were shorter, so they just had the salon do their hair the way they wanted. I think that's best, because they know their own style, and you want them to be comfy all day.
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First decide what you are going to do and that will help make the decision as to what you should tell them you would like fort hem to do but I would not push it too hard because it can cause problems with the attendants. I saw a brides maid show up with purple hair just to tick off the bride because the wedding had turned her into the ultimate bridezilla and the friendship never recovered. Is it really worth it?
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The original purpose of the veil was to cover your face. Do not worry so much about the little things. Let the girls wear their hair how they would like to and you do the same. EVERYONE who goes to a wedding is watching the bride and groom. No one will remember how the bridesmaids wore their hair.
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I'm not sure about the veil thing... but about your bridesmaids hair: If you would like to make sure that your hair is 'more dramatic' and 'a little nicer', simply talk to them and decide all together what hair styles you will be getting. Let them know that you want your hair to be different than theirs - that's totally acceptable - it's your day!!! Explain your ideas together - it may be a blast to spend time with your bridesmaids before the big day, just a little 'girl-time'! Good luck!
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All of these questions are up to you. It is YOUR big day, no one elses. I kinda like the veil shorter than the hair. I think that your girls should have different hair styles, not every style will look good on every face. Have them looking thier best with a hair style that compliments the shape of their faces. No one will get any of the bridesmaids confused with you no matter how their hair is done. Your the bride, your gown and bouquet should say it all. You also need to play with different styles and see which one you like and compliments you. I kinda like the half up half down with barrel curls. that's a traditional hair do. I can't be more specific because I don't know the shape of your face or what your veil looks like. I hope this helps Good luck and congrats.
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I don't think you should worry so much. You're the bride...all the attention is on you anyway. I also think letting the girls decide how they want their hair is a good idea...maybe give some guidlines...like: do your hair how you'd like, with half of it up....or, you can style your hair anyway you want as long as it's up. etc.
Good luck...and don't stress so much - your taking the fun out of the planning.
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Personally I think it would look a little wierd to have your hair longer than the veil, and I wouldn't stress about your girls hair, just let them do what they want cuz not all people look good with their hair up or down, some may like more complicated things, some may go for more smooth and sleek...They don't have to be clones, and you want them to be able to have the freedom to be beautiful. Don't decide your hair based on theirs either, wear it how you think will make you feel the most beautiful that day, nobody is gonna be comparing how much nicer your hairstlye is compared to the bridesmaids....they are gonna be payin attention to the girl in the white dress!
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Definitely don't let your girls upstage you-this is YOUR day!!!
You have every right to tell them how you want them to wear their hair. Wear your hair how you want and discuss with them how they prefer. If you like their ideas, you may not have to say anything.
Congratulations.
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I think the veil should be longer. And as for your bridesmaids, I would let them do what they want to their hair, but you may want to specify if you want their hair up or down. I told my girls they could do whatever they wanted as long as their hair was down or half up.... They all looked very nice and didn't stress about it.
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it's your wedding and you should do everything the way you feel comfortable with. yes, even the nitty gritty details. don't do anything that you might regret on the day... eg. don't let them choose their hairstyles if you're afraid you might look at them all the time on your wedding day and wish you had told them how you wanted it!
re your hair, don't bother about traditions, just do anything that will make you feel beautiful!
